9 Ways To Have a Stress-Free Wedding

Your wedding day should be one of the happiest, most memorable days of your life. But with so much planning, it’s easy for stress to sneak in. As a wedding photographer, I’ve seen it all—what works, what doesn’t, and how to make sure you truly enjoy every moment. Here are 9 tips for making your day stress-free and filled with joy!

1.) Bring a Pair of Flats (for a Carefree Dance Floor!)

While you’ll look stunning in those gorgeous heels, you’ll definitely thank yourself later for slipping into a comfortable pair of flats after the ceremony. You’ll be able to enjoy the reception, dance freely, and not have to worry about sore feet or blisters. Plus, your guests won’t even notice—they’ll be focused on your joy!

2.) Take a Video of Your Dress Being Bustled

Wedding dresses are gorgeous—but let’s be real, they can be tricky! Recording a video of your dress bustling process will help anyone (whether it’s your maid of honor or a family member) handle the task in a flash. This small thing will save time and prevent any unnecessary stress when you’re ready to hit the dance floor!

3.) Don’t Forget to Eat (and Stay Energized!)

Amid all the excitement, it’s easy to forget to eat. But trust me, you’ll need the energy to fully enjoy every moment! Have someone in charge of bringing snacks to you and your wedding party, so you stay fueled throughout the day. Your ceremony photos will be even more radiant with a smile and an energized vibe!

4.) Budget Extra Time (It’s Okay to Slow Down)

We all know that time flies when you’re having fun—but it can be stressful when you’re running behind. Give yourself some extra time for getting ready in the morning, and for your formal photos. This way, you’ll have the space to breathe and take it all in, without feeling rushed. (Trust me, you’ll want those extra moments to savor the day!)

5.) Have a Flexible Timeline

Having a timeline isn’t just about sticking to a strict schedule—it’s about creating a smooth, enjoyable flow for the day. I recommend building in buffer time between events so you can relax, knowing you’re not under the gun. Think of your timeline as your safety net to ensure everything happens naturally and with ease.

(P.S. I’ve written an entire blog post on wedding day timelines here!)

6.) Create A Simple Shot List (for Your Must-Have Moments)

While a great photographer will know exactly when to capture the special moments, it’s helpful to make a note of any specific photos you really want. Keep it simple—maybe the first look, a family portrait, or a candid moment with your partner. This ensures we’ll catch everything that matters most, while still letting the day unfold naturally.

7.) Keep Important Info in One Place

Instead of scrambling for phone numbers or ceremony details, compile all your key information (addresses, contacts, etc.) in one place. I always provide this in the timeline I give to my couples, so if someone needs something, they can quickly find what they’re looking for without any panic.

8.) Create an “Emergency Kit” with Your Details

This is all about peace of mind. Pack a bag with the essentials—extra bobby pins, tissues, lip balm, and your jewelry. Having everything in one place will save you from scrambling and keep you focused on what truly matters: being present and enjoying your wedding day.

9.) Relax and Trust Your Team

The most important tip I can give you? Don’t sweat the small stuff. Take a deep breath, soak in the moments, and trust that your incredible team of vendors is there to make everything run smoothly. You’ve hired the best, and they’re there to handle the details so you can enjoy every second of your celebration. Your day will be nothing short of amazing, and you’ll be left with beautiful memories to cherish for a lifetime.

Ready to start planning a stress-free day?

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